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Flirting With A Woman – When Flirting Goes Wrong!

February 11th, 2010

It’s a funny thing. Some people seem to be born knowing how to flirt and others, it’s almost too painful to watch. Most people are somewhere in the middle of this. If you feel like you might need a little help flirting with a woman, don’t feel too bad about this. Your are just like almost every other guy out there and many women too. Flirting can be pretty easy when you get the hang of it, but there are times when flirting can go WRONG!

How are some ways that you can go wrong flirting with a woman?

1. Asking her the WRONG questions. Some people make the mistake of trying to get too personal right away. When you start off flirting with a woman, it’s not about trying to learn her life story. It’s not about trying to get to uncover every little detail that you can about her. It’s about building attraction, making her feel good around you, and getting to a point where you can take things further with her.

2. Losing your cool and acting nervous around her. What’s the easiest way to make a woman feel nervous? Just act nervous around her. Look, it can be nerve racking when you are flirting with a woman, especially if you are around a very beautiful woman. But, if you let her see that you are really nervous, the feeling will become contagious. And if she feels nervous around you, it’s not going your way at all.

3. Not going for the escalation. Flirting with a woman should really just be a stepping stone to something more than a woman. Be honest, you are not flirting with her just for the fun of it most of the time. You want to get her phone number, you want to take her on a date, you want to get to know her. To do this, you have to be able to escalate attraction with a woman and make her want the same things that you do.

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