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Edging is a technique that can be used to increase your ability to refrain from climaxing when you’re really stimulated and turned on. It goes like this. You imagine a scale of stimulation from 1 to 10. 1 means you aren’t stimulated at all. It’s how you are before you even start to have sex. 3 means you’re starting to become physically stimulated. In other words, you can definitely feel it, but it’s not enough to make you come too early. 6 is where you really start to feel stimulated. If you carried on with this level of stimulation, you’d rise to the next number on the scale: 7. 7 is where you’re very sexually stimulated. When you go above a 7 on the stimulation scale, you get close to the point of no return which is a 9. Passing the point of no return means you’re definitely going to ejaculate, no matter what you do. The edging technique involves masturbating until you get to a 7 on the scale, then backing off and slowing down until you’re back down to a 4 or 5, then speeding up until you’re about a 7 or 8 once more. Using this method, you can learn to control your stimulation levels and thereby extend how long you’re able to have sex without coming. Once you’ve used edging alone for a while, though, you should take it to the next level: edging with your partner. Here’s how to do that.

Begin sex with your partner. You should have already discussed that you’re going to try edging during this sexual encounter and she should be happy and enthusiastic about the idea. After foreplay, enter you partner in the position you know creates the smallest amount of sexual stimulation for you. Now slowly build your way up to 7 on the stimulation scale. Be careful—it’s easy to jump right past 7 and pass the point of no return when using the edging technique in ‘live’ conditions. Once you’re at or just beyond 7, and therefore fairly close to coming, slow down or withdraw from your partner, wait a moment, then build it back up once more. Keep going just as you do it when performing edging by yourself. After a while, you can switch to your next least intense sexual position and start the edging process once more. Of course, your partner doesn’t have to just lie there and let you beaver away throughout all of this. You can still kiss her, talk to her, tease her, etc. In other words, done right, this technique is awesome for your partner, even though it’s serving a productive purpose for you. Keep going through sexual positions, edging throughout each one. If you come after a while, don’t worry about it. You’ve made good progress. Next time, you’ll be able to go even further.

You won’t believe how effective this technique is when used in conjunction with deep breathing exercises. After just three or four sexual encounters, during which you’ve used this technique, you’ll notice that you can last two or even three times as long as you used to, before you used this method of edging.

 

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Are you in a relationship with a man who isn’t serious about taking things to the next level? Loving a commitment phobic boyfriend isn’t easy. If you’re a woman who has longed for a deeply committed relationship and the man you adore doesn’t share that same outlook it’s emotionally challenging. Although some people may tell you that the only thing to do in a situation like this is to move on and find someone more deserving of your love, you know that’s not likely. If you want your boyfriend to commit to you, you need to take steps to make that happen. Regardless of his reasons for hesitating about taking your relationship to the next level, there are things you can do to change his mind so he’s the one chasing after you for a commitment.

The first thing you must do if you have a commitment phobic boyfriend is to stop pushing him. It’s within our nature as women to push our men when we want something. If we strongly believe he’s supposed to be the man we spend our lives with, we’ll push him into wanting the commitment as much as we do. The problem with that approach is that it doesn’t work. If a man is feel hesitation about getting more serious with his girlfriend, and she starts to push him more and more, he’ll eventually pull back. That may result in him leaving the relationship completely so this is obviously not something you want to do.

Often times, you’ll discover that the reason your commitment phobic boyfriend is scared of a serious connection is that he’s fearful that he’ll lose his freedom. He may imagine a future in which he’ll have to give up time with his friends or he’ll be unable to pursue his own interests and hobbies. This is actually a very common fear among men. To ensure he knows that you’re not expecting him to trade his life for your happiness, continue to chase after the things you love. Don’t forgo time with your friends to be with him and don’t ever give up plans just to be with him. If he sees that you don’t want to give up your freedom either, he’ll feel more secure in the idea of becoming committed to you.

There are specific things that any woman can say and do that will make her man want to commit to her. If you believe that he is the man you are destined to be with there are things you can do right now that will make him feel exactly the same way about you.

You don’t have to wait for him to decide whether or not he’s ready to commit to you. If you are tired of putting your dreams on hold because he’s commitment phobic, there are things you can do to make him want to marry you now. Learn right now what you need to do to make him fall to his knees and beg you to marry him.

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