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At an interview, “Avatar” director James Cameron said that if it took this movie to make people realise that we are all connected, to earth and to each other, then he’s glad he made it.

During a life coaching session with one of my clients, I mentioned this, and I was shocked to hear her say that she didn’t know the movie had a message.

“If we are all connected, why is so hard to connect?” she asked me.

This client came to me with confidence issues that were keeping her isolated. When she first came to me, she could barely look at me in the eye, she had no social skills and no friends.

I asked her to imagine a room full of people who were her brothers and sisters. I had her imagine that they were all more uncomfortable and nervous than she was. I told her her job was to walk up to three people and make sure that they were ok, that they were at ease and having a good time.

“When you put it like that, it’s easy” she said “they are my brothers and sisters, right?”

“Right” I said.

Now, while she is not looking for intimate love, she is looking for the love of a friend. Lots of friends.

However, if you are looking for a relationship, and lack of confidence is keeping you from finding one, think about this…

Clean shoes, shiny hair, a nice body, good fashion sense, a job… all of this is important, don’t get me wrong. Unfortunately, we live in a materialistic society, and things mean a lot to us.

Looks are important, presenting the best version of yourself is important, first impressions do count … but unless you can make someone feel good, you are doomed.

If you can make someone feel good they are going to want to spend more time with you.

And in order to make someone feel good, you need to get out of your head and focus on them.

It’s easy to get uncomfortable, nervous and insecure when you are talking to yourself in your head.

However, while you are talking to yourself, you are not paying attention to the person you want to impress.

So, instead of focusing on how you can make them like you, focus on making them feel at ease and have a good time.

Another client of mine followed my secrets to attract the opposite sex. I asked him to put some strategies into practice at the weekend. On Monday morning he called me and told me he’d met this girl who told him he was the most interesting person she had ever met!

I asked him what he did. He said, “What you told me to. She has a very exciting life so I asked her a whole lot of questions about it. She talked and talked. I listened and listened. I am seeing her again this week!”

There is nothing more impressive than someone who is genuinely interested in you and your life, right?
Makes you feel good inside.

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Anna Aparicio is a IINLP Life Coach, Speaker and Educator based in Dublin, Ireland.

She specialises in: weight loss,cravings,overeating,f

itness goals achievement,sports performance, self-esteem and confidence, motivation…

Anna uses cutting edge NLP, Hypnosis and Self-improvement strategies to create massive changes in her clients’ lives, fast.

To find out how Anna can help you too, and to get her Free Report “WHY YOU’LL NEVER GET WHAT YOU WANT UNLESS YOU DO THIS”, visit http://www.delite.ie

Anna Aparicio is a IINLP Life Coach, Speaker and Educator based in Dublin, Ireland. She specialises in: weight loss,cravings,overeating,f
itness goals achievement,sports performance, self-esteem and confidence, motivation… Anna uses cutting edge NLP, Hypnosis and Self-improvement strategies to create massive changes in her clients’ lives, fast. To find out how Anna can help you too, and to get her Free Report “WHY YOU’LL NEVER GET WHAT YOU WANT UNLESS YOU DO THIS”, visit http://www.delite.ie
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For anybody who has studied game, this will be one of the more simplier, yet one of the more informative articles you will ever read. Use it as a checklist, the bottom line is if you follow these general seduction rules, you will AUTOMATICALLY look and feel more attractive to the opposite sex.

Body Language

1) Walk with your back straight, chest out and chin up
The walk of an alpha-male. The walk of a confident man. If your not walking like this, then you’ve got bad posture. If your new to the game and you’ve been walking hunchback with your head down your entire life, it might even feel kind of odd walking in this new found way. Practice in front of a mirror, do whatever you have to do to make sure you look and feel comfortable and natural.

2) Slow down your movements
Continuing on from the walk of an alpha male, the alpha also slows down EVERYTHING he does. Watch clips on YouTube of Will Smith, Brad Pitt and Tom Cruise (when he’s not running everywhere) – watch how they walk, watch how they reach for their drink, watch how they do EVERYTHING. It’s calm, collective and slow. Not un-naturally slow, but slower than the average man. It looks cool, it looks confident, it’s alpha.

3) Smile
Nobody likes a miserable person. If you are smiling and having fun, you automatically draw people towards you, and you look attractive. Look at the world’s alpha males – they are constantly smiling and enjoying themselves, look at every man with a hot chick, you guessed it, they are smiling. I don’t want you to walk around with a cheesey grin on your face, just make sure you look like the world is your oyster and you are having a good time.

Conversation Tips

1) Slow down!
Again, relax and slow down your talking. It shows your cool, calm and confident. Watch interviews of ANY alpha male, he’s relaxed all around – body language AND speach. Talking fast shows nervousness, and the alpha is never nervous.

2) Hold eye contact
When having a conversation with somebody, hold your eye contact. One of the most important life skills you will ever learn is eye contact. A confident man will always hold his eye contact. If you’re eyes are everywhere it shows neediness, nervousness, bassically all the things you DON’T WANT TO BE. Also, don’t be the first to break eye contact – the dominant male never breaks eye contact first.

3) Listen!
I get a lot of e-mail’s from guys who simply just don’t know how to have a proper conversation! They get stuck for words it fizzles out. Well, just listen! Women will always tell you what they want to talk about. It’s one of the oldest seduction “tricks” in the book, but it’s one that will stand the test of time. If you ask a women what she has done today and she says “I just went into town and did some shopping with my sister” she wants you to talk about shopping, or her sister!

So there you have it. Just a few things you can start doing TODAY, hell, RIGHT THIS VERY SECOND, to DOUBLE YOUR ATTRACTION to everyone you meet and everyone you are going to meet!

If you liked this article, their are tons more on my website. Make sure you stop by The Seduction Box for the best in dating help and advice.

I’m not going to tell you my entire story from start to finish here, because I have a full biography on my website. But my seduction coaching career took off in 2006 when I was made the first TIC member. Since then, myself and the rest of The Inner Circle have released 2 books, one, A Crash Course In Seduction, we give you for absolutely nothing!

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