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Why do Asian guys have a hard time dating other women? It seems this is a problem that only affects Asian men. I see white guy, Asian girl couples all the time, but hardly any Asian guy, white girl couples. Why is it so hard for Asian guys to date women of other races? I learned a lot about why. Read on to find out more.

I think a lot of it is about Asian culture. I mean, we are raised to be polite and friendly. We value getting along and non-confrontation above standing out and getting what is ours. Your average caucassian guy is rude by Asian standards, but he isn’t afraid of putting it out there and doing something crazy to get the attention of a girl. We on the other hand are raised to conform, to not stand out in a crowd, if we did, we could be sure of being punished as children. Is it any wonder, most Asian guys act the way they do?

I think there is a lot to be proud of in Asian culture, but I also think the average Asian guy is to rigid and stone faced in social settings. It’s a product of social conditioning and also stereotypes and neither help in getting the girl.

White girls may see a guy like that as being cold, distant and aloof. Someone who may seem interesting but who doesn’t open up, who isn’t willing to share himself and take a chance. Even worse, they may think – ‘creep’ or ‘weirdo’ – and stay away and that stings. It’s a bad place to be.

I have spent a lot of time really thinking why this problem only affects Asian guys. Why is it so hard for Asian men to date white women or any women of other race?
It’s not the end of the world, it isn’t the final truth. Being Asian is far from a handicap, it’s just cultural background, a history, something to be proud of. In fact, there are Asian guys who have phenomonal success with women – of all races. They would laugh at the suggestions in that study, because THEY KNOW BETTER.
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Sometimes when people see an Asian guy with a white girl the questions they ask themselves is ‘what has he got?’ and not ‘what has she got for him to be with her?’. Why is that? We see Asian girl, white guy couples all the time and no one ever asks that question. Does this mean that white women do not find Asian men attractive? Read on.

I guess it’s natural to some degree. The Hollywood stereotype of the Asian male isn’t very flattering. Sure, we have some cool Kung Fu martial artists starring in movies, but when was the last time you saw a movie with an Asian lead character outside this genre? Instead we often have Asians play the role of the geeky computer nerd or the weird kids in high school comedies. So obviously, if you’re a white girl and you watch television, then you will have been exposed to these stereotypes at some point.

Does that mean that Asian guys just have to accept this and accept that they won’t be able to date the women they really desire?

A big no to that!

I know from personal experience that there many, many Asian guys who are very succesfull with women. They even use their race as an advantage. I love watching some of my friends who are into pick up, charm a girl and draw them in using their unique culture and background as their best asset.

Many white women actually think Asian men are very attractive once they get to know them. They may even think that Asian guys are better boyfriends, more caring and respectful, even better sexually as lovers. We have better family values as well.

I think, in the end, women are attracted to charming, confident men. It’s just a natural attraction switch that can’t be turned off. Attraction isn’t a choice. An Asian man who has gotten over his limiting beliefs and have full confidence in himself and his abilities will be very attractive to women of all races.

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