While you may think your relationship with your man is unshakeable, there are many things that can cause him to sway and wander off like a little boy in a toy store. Sometimes, the most innocent and sweetest things you do (in your perception) are what can drive your man away. Here’s what guys say about what makes them stay, and not stray.
Pursue your passion.
If there is anything you are passionate about, pursue it. Guys become bored and begin to stray when their girlfriend settles for mediocre conversations and activities. On the other hand, a man would totally respect you if you can maintain a relationship and still live a fulfilled life.
Feistiness is fun.
A perfect relationship is not one wherein fights have been obliterated totally from the system. If you’re not fighting, then something is wrong. You, or he, may be settling and no longer asserting your needs, wants and feelings. Guys want to stay with feisty women who are not afraid to speak their mind during an argument. We are not referring to nagging, ladies.
Surprises are sexy.
Get creative and do some research on things that surprise a man. It could be a simple dinner, but to him it’s a surprise, especially when you don’t normally cook. It could be a DVD of a movie he had missed at the cinemas because of working late. It could be a lap dance when he least expects it, such as when he’s unwinding in front of the TV.
Clinginess cause claustrophobia.
This is the reason a lot of guys don’t want to go into that deep abyss called long-term relationship. They are simply scared that their girlfriend would get too clingy and prevent them from living the lives they want. So, if you really want to keep your man, let him be a boy. Allow him to go out with friends. Don’t go monkey-crazy when he picks up his phone and texts someone. Never snoop around his office and hang-out places. It’s not cool.
Confidence is charming.
Guys won’t admit it, but they are secretly big fans of women who are big shots in their chosen careers. It does not matter what you do in life – if you take pride in it, and can support yourself with it, you have your man’s respect, especially if you are on an upward climb. You walk with a confident stride, and always have that open attitude that attracts people to your side. Your man would be so proud to be the guy who’s always beside you when others are aching to get close.
Jealousy is a joke (to any relationship).
If your guy gives a pretty girl a look, don’t go ballistic and think he’s about to cheat on you. Guys appreciate superficial beauty, but they always go for beauty that’s beyond skin – deep. Relax. Don’t even think about bringing it up, even in the nicest way. When girls go crazy jealous, guys freeze and withdraw, because their egos get hurt. They feel unwanted and un-trusted.
Our egos are enormous.
And let’s not forget. Residing within every man is a monster called a gigantic ego, which may or may not be apparent. If you really want him to stay, feed this monster on occasion. Don’t spoil it, because it will only get bigger. When you feel like your man has gone the extra mile, show appreciation, being careful not to over do it.
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